Just the other day I had the luxury to speak to a group of parents about the health and development of our children, which proved to be an extremely beneficial experience for both myself and the party in which I was addressing. As a Kanata Chiropractor it has been a long time philosophy of mine to grow healthy children, rather than wait and try to repair damaged adults. With that being said, I have come to realize that the best way to make an impact on our community starts with addressing those individuals that control the fate of the future, our children.
As a parent, I also realize that we are most responsible for being a positive role model in our children’s upbringing. Many factors come into play when promoting children’s health including, but not limited to: proper nutrition, adequate sleep, the understanding that the body was born to be healthy rather than needing medication to stay afloat, daily exercise, and last, but definitely not least, establishing a healthy self esteem.
Studies show that our emotions and self perceptions create the environment which we live in. In other words, emotional stressors can be equated to a large majority of health related illness’s today. We truly are what we think. In fact, it is my opinion that self esteem should be practiced from the very day that a child is able to roll over. Children develop thoughts and establish feelings about themselves at a very early age. Filling our children’s mind with positive affirmations at a young age can help enforce healthy perceptions of themselves as they mature. It also creates a support system of reassurance for them to fall back on when things don’t quite go according to plan. One thing is for certain; our children are a direct reflection of us.
As parents, we are solely responsible for creating an environment where these types of positive behaviours can develop. Unfortunately, this takes a little more than a pat on the back and the good ol’ “we’ll get’em next time champ”. Our words are much more powerful than we think. The old saying “watch what you say because there is always someone listening” rings true in this particular situation. Our children are listening and they are mimicking our every move and adapting to our every behaviour.
I will leave it to the experts to further elaborate on this matter. Follow this link to read a very well written article on building our children’s self esteem. I encourage you to take this article literally and practice it in its entirety. Remember that you are the educators of our future society! I will leave you with a quote from Ghandi: “Be the change you want to see in your children."
Dr. Ryan Pope is a Kanata chiropractor at The Wellness Group, a multidisciplinary health facility in Ontario, Canada. He currently practices chiropractic in Kanata full time with a focus on educating and empowering his practice members to harness the innate intelligence of the body to heal itself through the chiropractic lifestyle.